The blogs in this category are for people considering or already having decided to divorce – with a focus on spouses with children.
The saying that “It takes two to tango” confronts us with a sad truth. When two people are in ongoing conflict with one another, as is true in many co-parenting relationships, both people are contributing to the conflict. These are called “negative cycles” when an event occurs, and a series of reactions occur by both […]
In Blogs #1 and #2, of this Series, we made the point that part of being human is the desire to be “right” and to win. This is true in any contest. In tennis for example, a player might be excited to be right when predicting the direction the opponent would run. Being right and […]
In Blogs #1 and #2 of this Series, we explored the importance of being right and winning to human beings. In Blog #2, we also pointed out that being right and winning usually serves people well, but in some cases, can lead to self-defeating choices and persisting in efforts that have no end. In Blog […]
In Blogs #1 & #2 of this Series, we focused on the importance of being right and winning in conflicts with others. A conflict is simply a disagreement that does not get resolved easily. Disagreements get resolved easily when one of the two people admits to being wrong or when one of the two people […]
Blogs #1, 2 & 3 of this Series assumed that two co-parents would like to improve their co-parenting relationship and are willing to cooperate to do so. Blogs #4 and 5 assume that one parent would like to make improvements, but has an uncooperative co-parent. For that purpose, we introduced a new Mindset: in Blog […]
This blog is one of a series that focus on the nut we would all like to crack: divorce conflict. Books on divorce, Collaborative Divorce; Cooperative Divorce; and other models in family law have been attempts to move the needle from divorce conflict to amicable divorces. This is because most professionals involved with divorcing parties, especially attorneys […]
Kenneth H. Waldron, Ph.D. and Allan R. Koritzinsky, J.D. are your divorce doctors. This and other blogs on our site have the purpose of helpin people achieve a sensible divorce. The question that this blog focuses on is “Does the current family law system focus on a Plan (meaning a settlement or Court decision) for reaching long-term […]
This article is one of a series that focus on the nut we would all like to crack: divorce conflict. Books on divorce, Collaborative Divorce; Cooperative Divorce; and other models in family law have been attempts to move the needle from conflict in divorce to amicable divorces. This is because most professionals involved with divorcing parties, especially […]
Psychologist Ken Waldron and family law attorney Allan Koritzinsky have almost a hundred years of experience working in the family law arena. We have written two books for attorneys and mediators, applying Game Theory principles to negotiation and mediation strategies, transforming the divorce process into a cooperative goal-based planning process. Those books are: Game Theory […]
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