It really is easy to improve a marriage, but there are obstacles. The obstacles are not what spouses think; it is what the spouse believe, summarized as follows: Spouses develop beliefs about why their marriage is not better than it is.Most of the time, those are negative beliefs about the other spouse. Spouses in a […]
INTRODUCTION The greatest challenge in a marriage is for spouses to understand the world as seen by the other spouse. By “world” we mean the conscious and unconscious vision that the spouse has about what is important, how things work, expectations of what a marriage will be like, what is the desired end-product of relationships […]
Learning about the Rules, Skills and Overconfidence Bias All types of human interaction can be viewed as a game, including even very serious types of interactions such as war. Mathematicians have studied human interaction and developed a mathematical approach to increase the chances of successful outcomes.[1] Surprisingly, it is not that complicated. Games simply have […]
Introduction and Confused Beliefs In our book, Planning a Sensible Divorce: How to Avoid the Toxic Dance of a Messy Divorce, Ken and Allan make the point that about twenty percent of current divorces are fairly amicable. About another twenty percent involve spouses with mental disorders or conduct problems, such as violence, or both […]
By Kenneth R. Waldron, PhD and Allan R. Koritzinsky, JD[1] Introduction Cassie and Mark marry. They are in love. They have dated long enough to believe that they know one another and are looking forward to a life together. They have discussed important topics, such as having children. They are aware that many marriages end […]
By Kenneth R. Waldron, PhD and Allan R. Koritzinsky, JD[1] Introduction If you are reading this, you might be a married person whose marriage is causing you to suffer, not only making you doubt whether you should remain married but also hoping that somehow your marriage can be turned around. You might have children and […]
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